As I reflect on this past year, I see a story of both challenges and incredible growth. It’s been a year of deep introspection, particularly because of recurring themes of disappointment, especially in relationships that lack emotional connection. That absence stung more than I could sometimes handle. Though these relationships weren’t necessarily harmful, the void left by unmet needs was just a bit much to bear. Where I had to grow this year has been less about what others failed to provide and more about intimacy with God and the continuing journey of undoing old patterns where I still give my power away, drain my energy, and let my joy slip away. Which only deepened my ability to support my clients in their rise to Soul Powered Leadership.
It’s funny—my word for the year was FFF: Fun, Friendships, and Forgiveness. And oh, did 2024 deliver. This year was filled with moments of laughter, real connections, and healing. Through the ups and downs, I would ask myself: How do I love without losing myself? How do I hurt without shutting my heart? How do I be with others and be totally free to be me?
These questions became the foundation of my soul embodiment journey, revealing layers of my Soul Self that are stronger, more vibrant, and deeply rooted in who I am. I’ve always known that love doesn’t require sacrifice, that hurt doesn’t have to close my heart, and that real connection doesn’t come at the price of my soul.
Celebrating the Highs and the Growth
While there were definitely tough moments, there were also so many victories. The friendships that blossomed—real, raw, and authentic—and the fun moments that felt both liberating and grounding were vital for healing and freedom. This was especially significant after the emotional devastation of 2020, a year that pushed me to create my podcast, Soul Power to the People – Rising Above Crimes Against Humanity. For me, any force or influence that dumbs down human consciousness is, at its core, a crime against humanity. The cultural wreckage of that year deeply scarred and divided humanity, and though it blew my mind open, I still feel the devastation it created, both individually and collectively.
The Hard Truth: Soul Nourishment Matters
As I built new friendships in 2024, I faced the difficult decision to put the brakes on an affectionless relationship—one that, while fun, wasn’t the sacred soul-to-soul connection I had created space for. So, we agreed that we are better off in a platonic relationship. We’re still the best of friends, enjoying time together. No one’s fault. It just is. The truth I had to confront was this: I cannot abandon my foundation of unconditional self-love and my need for deep, soul-to-soul connection.
Freedom and Connection: The Biggest Lesson of 2024
This year has been about finding that sweet spot between freedom and connection—loving unconditionally, but also with strong personal and spiritual boundaries. True connection comes from mutual respect, trust, and the ability to remain anchored in your own truth, even in the midst of vulnerability. This isn’t always easy, especially when emotions are overwhelming or there’s a lack of connection. But I’ve learned that my security must come from within—not from others or external validation. True soul-powered leadership starts from the inside, and that’s the only way I know how to show up in my life and relationships now.
Though there were moments when retreat felt like the easier choice, I kept showing up. I adopted a motto mid-2024: I hold space without holding my breath. Every challenge has been an invitation to grow, and instead of resisting, I’ve embraced those moments. If others aren’t ready to shift with me, I can still hold space for them—but I won’t wait or hold my breath. I’ll honor their choices and their journey, but I won’t compromise where my spirit needs to be. Soul powered growth requires me to stay true to my soul’s path and destiny, no matter the external circumstances.
When disconnection becomes too much for my heart to bear, I dive deep into that place where every soul is connected. There, there is no separation—only love, only God. And it always brings me back to that sweet spot of connection and freedom.
The most powerful lesson I’ve learned this year is that the sweet spot between connection and freedom isn’t static. It shifts and evolves. But through commitment and openness, I’ve found that it’s no longer about trial and error—it’s become a reliable space I can return to. This, for me, is the true gift of the year.
A New Alignment: Kingdom Factor
A major turning point this year was finding Kingdom Factor—a community that has given me the deep connection I’ve longed for. Where I once felt an emptiness in relationships that lacked emotional depth, Kingdom Factor has become a spiritual home. It’s not just about business—it’s where I can truly be myself: Soul Powered.
I’ve realized that the deep connection I crave can’t be fully met by just one person. It’s simply unfair and unrealistic to expect that kind of emotional fulfillment from any one relationship. But God? God can handle that. And when I realized that, it felt like a divine ignition in my soul.
2025 and the Year of Ignition
As I look forward to 2025, I’m filled with excitement and renewed purpose. I’m ready to step even deeper into my role as a Kingdom Factor Coach and expand my spiritual gifts. I’m thrilled to continue growing within my Kingdom Factor cohort and watch that sacred work unfold. 2025 is about IGNITION—the year I fuel my divine intimacy in every area of my life—thoughts, words, and actions. I’m ready to step into it fully.
Looking Ahead: The Journey Continues
As I step into 2025, I’m carrying the lessons of this year with me: freedom, connection, fun, friendship, forgiveness, and joy. I want to take a moment to express deep gratitude for the lessons, the people, and the strength that has carried me through.
I’m deeply grateful to everyone who has shown up with love, to the friendships that have supported and uplifted me, and even to those who couldn’t fully value what I had to offer. Each one of you has played an important role in my growth. Just as I look back with gratitude for the lessons of 2020, I also thank those who couldn’t hold space for me. Even though it was challenging, those upsetting experiences sparked transformation within me, and for that, I’m thankful.
And most of all, thank you, God, for your unwavering presence and guidance. Your calling on my soul fills me with endless energy and awe.
And finally, thank you to myself—for showing up, doing the work, and embracing the process of healing and transformation. Here’s to a new year filled with even more growth, self-love, and the ignition to walk in my true power.
What About You?
As we enter the new year, I encourage you to reflect on your own journey. What has this year taught you about freedom, connection, and personal growth? What word will guide you in 2025? How will you lean into your own soul power, nourish your relationships, and deepen your connection with both yourself and God?
Let 2025 be the year of IGNITION—the year you step into your true self, fully expressed and fully loved.